Still, one of my favorite songs of all time, and still totally apropos for this stage of my life. Dreamed about J last night. In the dream I  met the new woman he was involved with and asked to speak to her. I wanted to tell her how it would be. I handed her an eraser and told her he was a good man, that she would enjoy her time with him, and that the eraser would be a reminder of our conversation and was symbolic of the total erasure of her he would do when he left.